I also take public transportation to and from school and my residency site. There is quite a bit of walking involved in that... and there are some stairs and slopes I come across during these walks to the Metro. So I don't feel completely inactive, but I do feel that I could still improve in this area.
It is hard to measure the consistency and intensity of the physical activity I participate in when it is spread out and woven into my daily activities. Once I get into the routine of going to the gym, I actually enjoy the structure and noticeable consistency of it.
As far as the second part of my goal, I haven't really been eating healthy. I went to Big Man Bakes on Saturday and ate a handful of mini cupcakes. Very yummy, but that probably negated all the walking I did.
My boyfriend attempts to be supportive of me as I try to change my health behaviors. He used to work out everyday and eat healthy (before he met me, haha) so it is something that he can relate to :) For a few months now, he has started working out about 4 or 5 times a week.
Before I went home for winter break, we would work out at the same time. I say at the same time and not together because he would go for a run outside while I headed straight for our apartment building's gym. I hate running, so I would never join him. But after his run was done, he would meet up with me in the gym and we would finish our workout.
This was a really nice arrangement because even though we weren't heading to the same place at first, we would leave the apartment together and come back together. When I lived on campus during undergrad, I would also go to the gym with friends from my building and this made it a lot easier to get up and go. If you're just waiting on yourself to go, there are a lot of excuses or things that can come up and distract you. But if you've made plans with someone else to go, then you're kind of held accountable and a specific time period is usually designated.
Well, I went home during winter break for 2 weeks and broke my gym routine. While I was gone, my boyfriend moved his workouts to Santa Monica (where he is originally from) and he likes running there a lot better than in Downtown LA... for many different reasons. When he doesn't feel like running, he also has the option of doing "the stairs" at Santa Monica... but he doesn't have that option in Downtown LA.
Since he usually goes straight to Santa Monica after work, I don't have anyone at home convincing me to exercise anymore. This makes it a lot harder to get it back into my routine... My boyfriend tries to verbally remind me to work out, but that doesn't really seem to be helping. It gets the idea into my head more, but hasn't pushed me to actually go to the gym.
This makes me think that verbal moral support isn't always as helpful as someone being there with you. As an occupational therapist, I do a lot of "doing with" clients and I definitely see how at first they may need your physical presence to feel comfortable doing something. Its funny to see this in myself... especially when I don't consider myself to be facing any major barriers.
My boyfriend definitely tries to have me eat healthier (more fruits and vegetables, brown rice vs. white rice, etc.) and since he does a lot of grocery shopping for us, his support there has been fairly successful. One thing he does not have much say in or influence over is my personal preferences. I love sweets, chocolate, and red meat. These are also the things I need to cut back on.
Having support is very helpful and makes these health behavior changes so much easier. But support also can only go so far. Ultimately, I must want to change and need to maintain these changes independently. If I really didn't want to change, I don't think anyone could make me.
